Well my last blog was nearly 6 weeks ago now and I can't believe that I'm actually back on half term now. The term has flown and I only have 13 weeks left in Doha before the summer holidays begin (Not that I am counting!)
This blog isn't really about anything - so if its boring I apologise. But I want to share what life is like in Doha to give anyone that is reading this an idea of what it is like to live here.
The time has gone by so fast and its crazy to think that I have been here for 7 months. I often have to pinch myself to realise that this is actually my life now, for the rest of this academic year and the next at least. Living away from home is never easy and I am glad that I have Skype, FaceTime and phone calls to keep me sane. I have learned over the past 7 months who really counts, from my Family, to my friends in the UK and my 'Doha Family'. Living here gives you a whole new perspective on life and you realise that although you might spend lots of time with the people you live and work with, you don't really know them and they don't really know you. We laugh and say that living here is a bit like living at University (especially in our building.) You spend your time in everyone else apartments except your own. Or in another way, its like living in the big brother house - you know nothing that is going on in the outside world, yet you know everyone's business and they know yours. Quite the strange thing to adapt to!
Now Doha has become home, I don't react to certain things the way that I used to. Seeing a woman fully covered from head to toe in an Abaya, Burkha or other traditional dress is the norm and its the Westerners that sometimes look out of place! The Abayas that the women wear are actually very beautiful and they have many different styles and varieties that they wear. Naturally I love the ones with the Swarovski Crystals all over them that cost thousands of Riyals to buy! Wayyyy out of my price range.
The way of life here is also one that I have adapted too, however, it doesn't mean I agree with it. There is a lot of inequality here with the workers and sometimes you cringe at the way that they are spoken to by some people. Qatar is largely driven by money and they want to be the biggest and the best. It is a very up and coming place with lots of potential, but I think personally, to be successful in the coming years especially when the world cup will be here, they are going to have to become more tolerant of certain aspects of Western Culture. Being a westerner here is easy if you respect the Muslim culture and show the respect that is due. Some people find it difficult to remember that we are the ex-pats here and we have to be tolerant of the ways of life. If you know where to go, you can easily access things that you would regularly do in the Western World. I personally am enjoying doing the more finer things in life, like High Tea at the Ritz-Carlton, Brunches at 5* hotels, enjoying the sunshine 99% of the year and not having to worry about every little thing. Over this half term I have experienced the 'Sky Bar' at a local hotel down the road from where I live called La Cigale. On the 11th Floor, they have a beautiful outdoor bar and it has Panoramic views of the city. We enjoyed cocktails there the other night, it was lovely and warm with just a slight breeze and amazing views. We all agreed that it was one of the nicest nights we've had in Doha since we arrived.
This blog isn't really about anything - so if its boring I apologise. But I want to share what life is like in Doha to give anyone that is reading this an idea of what it is like to live here.
The time has gone by so fast and its crazy to think that I have been here for 7 months. I often have to pinch myself to realise that this is actually my life now, for the rest of this academic year and the next at least. Living away from home is never easy and I am glad that I have Skype, FaceTime and phone calls to keep me sane. I have learned over the past 7 months who really counts, from my Family, to my friends in the UK and my 'Doha Family'. Living here gives you a whole new perspective on life and you realise that although you might spend lots of time with the people you live and work with, you don't really know them and they don't really know you. We laugh and say that living here is a bit like living at University (especially in our building.) You spend your time in everyone else apartments except your own. Or in another way, its like living in the big brother house - you know nothing that is going on in the outside world, yet you know everyone's business and they know yours. Quite the strange thing to adapt to!
Now Doha has become home, I don't react to certain things the way that I used to. Seeing a woman fully covered from head to toe in an Abaya, Burkha or other traditional dress is the norm and its the Westerners that sometimes look out of place! The Abayas that the women wear are actually very beautiful and they have many different styles and varieties that they wear. Naturally I love the ones with the Swarovski Crystals all over them that cost thousands of Riyals to buy! Wayyyy out of my price range.
The way of life here is also one that I have adapted too, however, it doesn't mean I agree with it. There is a lot of inequality here with the workers and sometimes you cringe at the way that they are spoken to by some people. Qatar is largely driven by money and they want to be the biggest and the best. It is a very up and coming place with lots of potential, but I think personally, to be successful in the coming years especially when the world cup will be here, they are going to have to become more tolerant of certain aspects of Western Culture. Being a westerner here is easy if you respect the Muslim culture and show the respect that is due. Some people find it difficult to remember that we are the ex-pats here and we have to be tolerant of the ways of life. If you know where to go, you can easily access things that you would regularly do in the Western World. I personally am enjoying doing the more finer things in life, like High Tea at the Ritz-Carlton, Brunches at 5* hotels, enjoying the sunshine 99% of the year and not having to worry about every little thing. Over this half term I have experienced the 'Sky Bar' at a local hotel down the road from where I live called La Cigale. On the 11th Floor, they have a beautiful outdoor bar and it has Panoramic views of the city. We enjoyed cocktails there the other night, it was lovely and warm with just a slight breeze and amazing views. We all agreed that it was one of the nicest nights we've had in Doha since we arrived.
I have also now become a Doha driver! After a lot of thinking and deliberating over whether or not I could cope with the stresses of driving like a Qatari, Pam and I have bitten the bullet and hired a car until the end of June. It's a lovely Metallic Blue Chevrolet Sonic, a car much bigger than my little White Fiesta at home! In Doha, a lot of the cars are white, but we opted for the bright blue one as we were reminded that a bright blue one is easy to see!! But then again, with the craziness of the Arabs and whatever other Nationalities are on the road, it doesn't matter what colour the car is, the fact of the matter is you are driving for 5 people when you are behind the wheel - yourself, the person in front, behind, to the left and to the right of you! And then you have to be aware of whatever else people are doing in other lanes! I have decided that driving on the Doha roads is like playing a live version of Mario Kart. Naturally, I'm Princess Peach! :)
I have managed so far to go on a magical mystery tour of Doha whilst trying to find the QDC, or the Qatar Distribution Centre, affectionately known by many as the Booze Souq. It took me 1 hour and 10 minutes to get there, when it should have taken me 15. Yeh. That was interesting. By the time I got there and got out of the car, I was so stiff from being so tense and worrying that I couldn't walk properly! But I have managed to do all the crazy Doha roads, Highways and Industrial estates and survive - so go me! Our car is affectionately named 'Sonic' although currently, I don't think I have managed to reach 'Sonic' speeds!
Living over here and having to get taxi's because you are unable to walk anywhere because of the heat as naturally lead to me (and quite a few of the ex pats here) to gain a certain amount of weight that I would rather be without. It is very easy to put on weight here because of the junk food culture and the the fact that nearly every fast food place and restaurant delivers. Yep. You're right, McDonald's, KFC, Apple-bee's, Chilli's, Pizza Hut.. They all deliver. So if you can't be bothered cooking you just go, ahh.. who can I phone and within half an hour to 40 mins you have it. Not good. So the weight that people gain within their first year or so here is now known as the Qatar Kilos or the Doha Dough. Now we are all about to go back for the summer and everyone wants a tan to show off when they get home, the diets are starting to come out! In my building a group of us have started our very own 'Fat Club' with weigh in once a week. I think the members will agree with me that I think that although we start out as extremely motivated, it quickly goes down hill and the weight we lose goes back on! Its too easy not to be good! The problem for most of us is that we don't do any exercise, so need to be a bit more active to burn off the dough. We have taken to walking the Corniche to feel like we are being a bit healthy, but in all fairness the Corniche is actually a nice place to go! Its extremely picturesque and you can get some beautiful night time shots of the city!
So, living in Doha isn't all that bad! :) I know this blog hasn't been all that and I know I haven't gone on and on about school (for a change) but I hope you have enjoyed reading it! x